爸爸在得知他未出生的孩子的性别后怒气冲冲地离开了揭秘派对:“这是50%的机会。”

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Dad storms out of reveal party after learning gender of his unborn baby: 'It was a 50/50 chance' HNFLive体育网

爸爸在得知他未出生的孩子的性别后怒气冲冲地离开了揭秘派对:“这是50%的机会。”HNFLive体育网

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An expectant father angered social media after storming out of the unborn baby’s reveal party upon learning the child’s gender. HNFLive体育网

一位准爸爸在得知孩子的性别后怒气冲冲地走出了尚未出生的婴儿的揭秘派对,这激怒了社交媒体。HNFLive体育网

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The 33-year-old man, who already has a 5-year-old daughter, took to Reddit’s “Am I The A**hole” forum to seek advice after upsetting his 34-year-old wife and his in-laws with his outburst, during what was meant to be a special occasion. HNFLive体育网

这位33岁的男子已经有了一个5岁的女儿,在一个本来应该是特殊的场合,他因发脾气惹恼了34岁的妻子和岳父岳母,他在Reddit的“我是不是那个**洞”论坛上寻求建议。HNFLive体育网

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“She’s been grouchy her whole pregnancy so her sister offered to plan her a gender reveal party,” the man began, more or less already on the wrong foot. HNFLive体育网

“她整个怀孕期间都在发牢骚,所以她妹妹主动提出要为她策划一个性别揭秘派对,”这名男子开始说,但或多或少已经步履维艰。HNFLive体育网

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“The plan was that all the food and decorations would be blue or pink and in the end we’d get one of those special sparklers that would light up in either blue or pink to reveal the gender,” he continued. “We went to the doctor and got her to write the result in a folded piece of paper that we passed over to her sister without looking.” HNFLive体育网

“我们的计划是所有的食物和装饰品都是蓝色或粉色的,最后我们会得到一个特殊的闪光灯,它会以蓝色或粉色点亮,以揭示性别,”他继续说。“我们去看了医生,让她把结果写在一张折叠的纸上,我们没有看一眼就把结果递给了她的妹妹。”HNFLive体育网

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Sounds pretty standard for a gender reveal party, right? Wrong. HNFLive体育网

听起来性别揭秘派对很标准,对吧?不对。HNFLive体育网

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Despite knowing exactly what to expect during the big day, the soon-to-be father of two lost his wits after learning the gender of his second born. HNFLive体育网

尽管清楚地知道在这个大日子里会发生什么,但这位即将成为两个孩子的父亲的人在得知第二个孩子的性别后失去了理智。HNFLive体育网

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“So flash forward to the day of the party and the moment of truth comes and the sparkler turns out to be pink for a girl,” he wrote. “I don’t know what came over me but all I felt at that moment was very bitter disappointment. To be honest, all I was hoping for baby #2 is to be able to toss a ball around with him and coach little league. Or watch him go on Boy Scouts camping trips.” HNFLive体育网

他写道:“所以快闪到派对那天,关键时刻到来了,闪闪发光的女孩竟然是粉色的。”“我不知道我是怎么了,但那一刻我感觉到的只是非常痛苦的失望。老实说,我对2号宝宝唯一的希望就是能和他一起扔球,执教小联盟。或者看他去童子军露营旅行。“。HNFLive体育网

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“I know my daughter is only five, but I’ve already started to deal with the dramas of being a father of a girl and the thought of having to double up now on the neuroticism was harrowing,” the man continued. “My wife grabbed my arm as people were approaching us to say their congratulations and said I needed to look happier. At that moment I just snapped. I shook my head and walked out to my car ( we came separately) and drove to my sister’s (21F) house.” HNFLive体育网

“我知道我的女儿只有5岁,但我已经开始应对作为一个女孩的父亲的戏剧性问题了,一想到现在不得不加倍面对神经质,就让人痛苦不已,”这名男子继续说。“当人们走近我们表示祝贺时,我的妻子抓住了我的胳膊,说我需要看起来更快乐。”那一刻我简直抓狂了。我摇摇头,走到我的车里(我们是分开来的),然后开车去了我姐姐(21层)的房子。“。HNFLive体育网

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Well, this didn’t sit too well with either the man’s wife or Reddit users, who called him out on his attitude toward “girls/women in general.” HNFLive体育网

嗯,无论是这名男子的妻子还是Reddit用户都对此不怎么满意,他们指责他对“一般女孩/女人”的态度。HNFLive体育网

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“No one is stopping you from tossing a ball with your daughter, or from camping with them, or encouraging them to participate in sports,” one user wrote. “You are the one stopping them from this.” HNFLive体育网

一位用户写道:“没有人阻止你和女儿一起扔球,或者和他们一起露营,或者鼓励他们参加运动。”“是你阻止他们这么做的。”HNFLive体育网

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“The misogyny sprinkled all throughout this post is astounding,” echoed another. HNFLive体育网

另一位网友附和道:“这篇帖子里散布的厌女症令人震惊。”HNFLive体育网

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“My dad had four girls and I asked him one time if he wished he had any sons,” added a third. “He said absolutely not, he could play sports and share his interests with his daughters the same way he could with sons and that he wouldn’t change a thing. And it was true, and I’m so grateful my father raised us with that attitude.” HNFLive体育网

“我爸爸有四个女儿,我有一次问他是否希望有儿子,”第三个补充道。“他说绝对不行,他可以和女儿们一起运动,像和儿子一样分享自己的兴趣爱好,而且他不会改变任何事情。”这是真的,我非常感谢我父亲用这种态度教育了我们。“。HNFLive体育网

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“It was a 50/50 chance,” leveled another. “Your reaction is now public and your child will hear about it at some point and she will feel like crap. You wanted a boy, fine.. but if you couldn’t deal with having a girl, you should not have had a public gender announcement. Or another kid, probably.” HNFLive体育网

“这是50%的机会,”另一个人说。“你的反应现在是公开的,你的孩子会在某个时候听到这件事,她会觉得自己很糟糕。你想要个男孩,很好..。但是如果你不能接受生女孩,你就不应该公开宣布性别。或者可能是另一个孩子。“。HNFLive体育网

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在得知他未出生的孩子的性别后,爸爸怒气冲冲地离开了揭秘派对,这篇帖子首先出现在了知情人士的面前。HNFLive体育网